Category — Quotes
Don’t Launch a Church - Reach a City
Spent time with one of my star mentees this past week - Ike Reighard. Ike is an amazing communicator. If you have a chance to be around him anytime, anywhere, go out of your way to allow a bit of Ike to rub off on you. He is utterly infectious.
He planted the first NorthStar Church in Atlanta. Now, about eight years later, there are fifty around the US.
Before he planted he has pastored a number of great churches, but was ready to plant. He now tells me that in our first conversation I gave him a couple of challenges that ended up spinning him big time.
I’ll pass on one to you here.
Don’t launch or lead a church – reach a city. Think in grand terms – that assumption will affect everything you do from the get go or from where you are now as you proceed forward.
July 5, 2007 No Comments
Best Quotes Around (by topic) — B
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Babies
Infancy conforms to nobody; all conform to it. — Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Self-Reliance," 1841
Adam and Eve had many advantages, but the principal one was that they escaped teething. — Mark Twain, Pudd’nhead Wilson, 1894
Balance
There is not much risk that an executive will cut back too much. We usually tend to overrate rather than underrate our importance and to conclude that far too many things can be done only by ourselves. Even very effective executive still do a great many unnecessary, unproductive things.
But the best proof that the danger of overpruning is a bugaboo is the extraordinary effectiveness so often attained by severely ill or severely handicapped people.
A good example was Harry Hopkins, President Roosevelt’s confidential adviser in World War II. A dying, indeed almost a dead man for whom every step was a torment, he could only work a few hours every other day or so. This forced him to cut out everything but truly vital matters. He did not lose effectiveness thereby; on the contrary, he became, as Churchill called him once, ‘Lord Heart of the Matter’ and accomplished more than anyone else in wartime Washington."
(I cannot count the number of times that illustration has come into my mind at critical moments. I determined to ruthlessly cut away whatever was not crucial to the task, asking myself repeatedly, "If I had two hours per day or ten hours per week to this job, what specific things would I do and what would I not do? As Drucker indicates in many , no matter how much wise pruning one does, the information worker will always have much more to do than he can possibly get to. as much as possible must be delegated to others.) Harold Myra, Leaders, Word Books, Waco, TX, p. 21, 1987
A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects. — Robert A. Heinlein, The Notebooks of Lazarus Long
Fear less, hope more;
Whine less, breathe more;
Hate less, love more;
And all good things are yours. — Anonymous
We aren’t what we eat. We are what we don’t shit. — Hugh Romney
I have so much to do that I am going to bed. — Savoyard proverb
Baseball
It could permanently hurt a batter for a long time. – Pete Rose re. Brushback pitch.
Beauty
What no beautician would ever tell a woman is that the secret to being beautiful is thinking the right thoughts. — Panel discussion on women’s issues, WNBC radio, 1979
Remember that the most beautiful things in the world are the most useless; peacocks and lilies for instance. — John Ruskin, The Stones of Venice, 1851
Rarely to great beauty and great virtue dwell together. — Petrarch (d. 1374), De Remediis utriusque fortunae
Beginnings
The only joy in the world is to begin. — Cesare Pavese Source: Little Zen Companion, Schiller.
In creating, the only hard thing’s to begin; a grass-blade’s no easier to make than an oak. – James Russell Lowell, 1819-1891
The distance doesn’t matter; it is only the first step that is difficult. – Marie de Vichy-Chamrond, 1697-1780
The beginning is the most important part of the work. – Plato, 428-348 B.C.
Behavior
The virtue of a man ought to be measured not by his extraordinary exertions, but by his everyday conduct. — Blaise Pascal
Almost all absurdity of conduct arises from the imitation of those whom we cannot resemble. – Dr. Samuel Johnson, 1709-1784
To do just the opposite is also a form of imitation. – Georg Christoph Lichtenberg, 1742-1799
Belief
If we believe absurdities, we shall commit atrocities. — Voltaire
The abdication of Belief makes the behavior small. – Emily Dickinson
Bible
The Bible —
Know it — in your head;
Stow it — in your heart;
Sow it — in the world;
Show it — in your life.
The Bible is a stream of running water, where alike the elephant may swim, and the lamb walk without losing its feet. — Gregory the Great
Bitterness
Bitterness is the poison we swallow, while hoping the other person dies. — Skip Gray, Navigators missionary
Blame
Don’t find fault. Find a remedy. — Henry Ford
Everyone is responsible and no one is to blame. — Will Schutz
The only person I cannot help is one who blames others. — Carl Jung
Blessing
Bless these walls, so firm and stout, keeping all want and trouble out. — Christian prayer
If this is a blessing, it is certainly very well disguised. – Winston Churchill upon his defeat in the 1945 elections
Boldness
Given and equal degree of intelligence, a thousand times more is lost in war through anxiety than through boldness. – Carl von Clausewitz
Fortune befriends the bold. – John Dryden
Fortune favors the audacious. – Erasmus
In great straits, when hope is small, the boldest counsels are the safest. – Livy
Don’t stand shivering upon the bank; plunge in at once, and have it over. – Sam Slick
Only the bold get to the top. – Publilius Syrus
It is better to err on the side of daring than the side of caution. – Alvin Toffler
To achieve great things we must live as though we were never going to die. – Marquis de Vauvenarques
Be bold — and mighty forces will come to your aid. — Basil King
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. Security does not exist in nature, nor to the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than exposure — Helen Keller
If you take too long in deciding what to do with your life, you’ll find you’ve done it. – George Bernard Shaw, 1856-1950
Books
Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested. Worthy books are like mentors — available as companions and as solitude for refreshment. — Francis Bacon
A good book should leave you… slightly exhausted at the end. You live several lives while reading it. — William Styron, interview, Writers at Work, 1958
When I get a little money, I buy books and if any is left, I buy food and clothes. — Erasmus
The love of learning, the sequestered nooks, all the sweet serenity of books. — Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Boredom
People not only lose faith in their talents and their dreams or values; some simply tire of them." — Edward Hoadland, Heart’s Desire
If you are living a hum-drum life, and you do nothing to change it, ten years from now you will be a product of ten more years of hum-drumidness." — David Campbell
Disorder and procrastination help avoid boredom; one never has the feeling that there is nothing important to do. — Unknown
Boredom is a sickness the cur for which is work; pleasure is only a palliative. — Luc Duc de Levis (d. 1787), Memoires
A scholar knows no boredom. — Jean Paul Richter, Hesperus, 1795
Boundaries
Learn to say no. — Charles Haddon Spurgeon
Brevity
"I have made this letter longer than usual because I lack the time to make it shorter." — Blaise Pascal
Brokenness
Man is born broken. He lives by mending. The grace of God is glue. – Eugene O’Neill
Business
He who shall introduce into public affairs the principles of Christ will change the face of the world." — Benjamin Franklin
Drive thy business, let not thy business drive thee." — Benjamin Franklin
Busyness
Our two greatest problems are gravity and paper work. We can lick gravity, but sometimes the paper work is overwhelming. — Dr. Wernher von Braun
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Accomplishment
When you get to the top of the mountain, your first inclination is not to jump for joy, but to look around. — James Carville
The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. — Walter Bagehot
I didn’t bite off more than I could chew — it just grew in my mouth. — Dr. Robert Ballard
Almost everything that is great has been done by youth. – Benjamin Disraeli, 1804-1881
Accountability
Everyone needs a bottom line of some sort; everyone needs to be responsible, accountable to whomever it is they are serving. — Bob Buford
We shall never learn to know ourselves except by endeavoring to know God;
for, beholding His greatness, we realize our own littleness; His purity
shows us our foulness; and by meditating upon His humility we find how very far we are from being humble. — Teresa of Avila (1515-1582)
Accuracy
A little inaccuracy sometimes saves tons of explanation. — H.H. Munro, 1924
Achievement
The best things and best people rise out of their separateness. I’m against a homogenized society because I want the cream to rise." — Robert Frost
Action
The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. – Walter Bagehot
Nothing is more terrible than activity without insight. – Thomas Carlyle
Talk doesn’t cook rice. – Chinese Proverb
Hell, there are not rules here – we’re trying to accomplish something. – Thomas Edison
First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do. – Epictetus
To dispose a soul to action we must upset its equilibrium. – Eric Hoffer
Deliberate with caution, but act with decision; and yield with graciousness or oppose with firmness. – Charles Hole
It is motive alone that gives character to the actions of men. – Jean de la Brukere
I have always thought the actions of men the best interpreters of their thoughts. – John Locke
There comes a moment when you have to stop revving up the car and shot it into gear
A thought which does not result in an action is nothing much, and an action which does not proceed from a thought is nothing at all. — Georges Bernanos
I do not believe in fate that falls on men however they act;
but I do believe in fate that falls on them unless they act.
–G K Chesterton, _Generally Speaking_
An ounce of action is worth a ton of theory. — Friedrich Engels
The time for action is past! Now is the time for senseless bickering! — Ashleigh Brilliant
The great end of life is not knowledge but action. — Thomas Henry Huxley, "Technical Education," 1887
Deliberation is the action of the many; action is the function of one. — Charles de Gaulle, War Memoirs, 1960
Determine never to be idle. No person will have occasion to complain of the want of time who never loses any. It is wonderful how much may be done if we are always doing. — Thomas Jefferson to Martha Jefferson, May 5, 1787
Truth divorced from experience will always dwell in the realms of doubt." — Henry Drause
Don’t do nothing just because you can’t do everything. — Bob Pierce
Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. — Theodore Roosevelt
"Do-so" is more important than "say-so" — Pete Seeger
No man can tame a tiger into a kitten by stroking it. There can be no appeasement with ruthlessness. There can be no reasoning with an incendiary bomb. — Franklin D. Roosevelt, Fireside Chat, December 29, 1940
One does what one is; one becomes what one does. – Robert von Musil, 1880-1942
Adapting
As he grew older my dad’s pants kept creeping up on him. By 65 he was just a pair of pants and a head. — Jeff Altman
A great many people think they are thinking when they are really rearranging their prejudices and superstitions. — Edward R. Murrow
Addictions
I ain’t got to. But I can’t help it. — William Faulkner
Adversity/ Suffering
Integrity is keeping my commitments even if the circumstances when I made those commitments have changed. — David Jeremiah
If I have learned anything, I owe it neither to precepts nor to books, but to a few opportune misfortunes. Perhaps the school of misfortune is the very best. — Louise Honorine de Choiseul (1734-1801)
The dark night of the soul comes just before revelation. When everything is lost, and all seems darkness, then comes the new life and all that is needed. — Joseph Campbell
When I hear somebody sigh, "Life is hard," I am always tempted to ask, "Compared to what?" — Sydney J. Harris
You don’t have to suffer to be a poet. Adolescence is enough suffering for anyone. — John Ciardi
Those whom God loveth he allows to have the snot kicked out of. — Plaque over the desk of Jamie Buckingham
People build most nobly when limitations are at their greatest. — Frank Lloyd Wright
There is no inherent problem in our desire to escalate our goals, as long as we enjoy the struggle along the way. — Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience
Adversity introduces a man to himself. – Anonymous
He knows not his own strength that hath not met adversity. – Ben Jonson, 1573-1637
Advice
Love all, trust a few. Do wrong to none . — Shakespeare
Advice is judged by results, not by intentions. – Cicero
Whatever advice you give, be short. – Horace
He is bad that will not take advice, but he is a thousand times worse who takes every advice. – Irish Proverb
You will always find a few Eskimos ready to tell the Congolese how to cope with the heat. – Stanislaw Lec
Good counsel has no price. – Buiseppe Mazzini
Many receive advice, few profit by it. – Publilius Surus
Advice what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn’t. – Unknown
Adulthood
Adults are always asking children what they want to be when they grow up — they’re looking for ideas. — Paula Poundstone
Aggresivity
The firstest gets the mostest. — Nathan Bedford Forrest, Civil War General
The unforgivable crime is soft hitting. Do not hit at all if it can be avoided. – Theodore Roosevelt, 1913
The first blow is half the battle. – Oliver Goldsmith, 1728-1774
You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try. – Beverly Sills, 1929-
Aging
To me, old age is always fifteen years older than I am. — Bernard Baruch
We don’t stop having fun when we’re old; we’re old when we stop having fun. — unknown
No matter how old you get, if you can keep the desire to be creative, you’re keeping the man-child alive. — John Cassavetes
Source: Harper Book of Quotations, Harper 1993
Hope I die before I get old. — Pete Townsend
"There’s no peer pressure." — Unknown, Woman’s response to being asked about the benefits of turning 102.
The old believe everything; the middle-aged suspect everything; the young know everything. — Oscar Wilde, "Phrases and Philosophies for the Use of the Young," 1894
The young man who has not wept is a savage, and the older man who will not laugh is a fool. — George Santayana, Dialogues in Limbo, 1925
Old age lives minutes slowly, hours quickly; childhood chews hours and swallows minutes. – Malcolm de Chazal, 1902-1981
A person is always startled when he hears himself seriously called an old man for the first time. – Oliver W. Holmes, Sr., 1806-1894
Altruism
He who wishes to secure the good of others has already secured his own. – Confucius
Ambition
Ah, but a man’s reach should exceed his grasp, or what’s a heaven for? — Robert Browning, Andrea del Sarto, 1855
Early to rise and early to bed makes a man healthy, wealthy and dead. — James Thurber, Fables for our Times, 1940
One often passes from love to ambition but rarely returns from ambition to love. — La Rochefoucauld, Reflections, 1665
A man may be so much of everything that he is nothing of anything. – Dr. Samuel Johnson, 1709-1784
Time was when I could not sleep for ambition. I thought of nothing but fame but immorality. I could not bear the idea of dying and being forgotten. – Anthony Ashley Cooper
The significance of a man is not in what he attains but rather in what he long to attain. – Kahlil Gibran
Where ambition ends happiness begins. – Hungarian Proberb
Throw away all ambition beyond that of doing the day’s work well. – William Osler
My success so far has only been won by absolute indifference to my future career. – Theodore Roosevelt
America
America may be unique in being a country which has leapt from barbarism to decadence without touching civilization. — John O’Hara
Anger
In the midst of great joy, do not promise anyone anything. In the midst of great anger, do not answer anyone’s letter. – Chinese Proverb
A man is as big as the things that make him angry. – Winston Churchill
When anger rises, think of the consequences. – Confucius
He who restrains his anger overcomes his greatest enemy. – Latin Proverb
The best cure for anger is delay. – Seneca
Never get angry except on purpose. – Unknown Japanese Diplomat
When angry count to ten; when very angry count to one hundred." — Thomas Jefferson
When angry, count to five; when very angry, swear. — Mark Twain
You can’t shake hands with a clinched fist. — Indira Gandhi
Of the Seven Deadly Sins, anger is possibly the most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the prospect of bitter confrontations still to come, to savor to the last toothsome morsel both the pain you are given and the pain you are giving back — in many ways it is a feast fit for a king. The chief drawback is that what you are wolfing down is yourself. The skeleton at the feast is you. — Frederick Buechner
Animals
I care not much for a man’s religion whose dog and cat are not the better for it. — Abraham Lincoln
The greatness of a nation can be judged by the way its animals are treated. — Mahatma Gandhi
It is just like man’s vanity and impertinence to call an animal dumb because it is dumb to his dull perceptions. — Mark Twain
Cats are intended to teach us that not everything in nature has a function. — Garison Keillor
A veterinarian can learn a lot about a dog owner he has never met by just observing the dog. – Stephen Brown
Anxiety
Anxiety is unbelief in disguise. — Don Hawkins
Anxiety is like sand in an oyster; a few grains produce a pearl, too many, kill. — saying
There is not such thing as pure pleasure; some anxiety always goes with it. — Ovid (d. A.D. 1), Metamorphasis
Appreciation
We know the worth of a thing when we have lost it. — French Proverb
Arguments
The aim of argument or discussion should not be victory, but progress. — Joseph Joubert, Pensees, 1842
"Arguments with furniture are rarely productive." — Kehlog Albran, "The Profit"
The time for action is past! Now is the time for senseless bickering! — Ashleigh Brilliant
Army
The Army has carried the American … ideal to its logical conclusion. Not only do they prohibit discrimination on the grounds of race, creed and color, but also on ability. — T. Lehrer
The Army needs leaders the way a foot needs a big toe. — Bill Murray
Art / Artists
Artist: Someone who produces things that people don’t need to have but that he — for some good reason — thinks it would be a good idea to give them. — Andy Warhol
Asking for Help
If there is something to gain and nothing to lose by asking, by all means ask! — W. Clement Stone
Tell everyone what you want to do and someone will want to help you do it. — W. Clement Stone
Whether we like it or not, asking is the rule of the Kingdom. — C. H. Spurgeon
You don’t always get what you ask for, but you never get what you don’t ask for… unless it’s contagious! — Franklyn Broude
Basically most people want to give. They almost encourage you to ask. — Brad Winch
You’ve got to ask! Asking is, in my opinion, the world’s most powerful — and neglected — secret to success and happiness. — Percy Ross
We find what we expect to find, and we receive what we ask for. — Elbert Hubbard
Whether we like it or not, asking is the rule of the Kingdom. — C. H. Spurgeon
Many things are lost for want of asking. — English Proverb
Know how to ask. There is nothing more difficult for some people. Nor for others, easier. — Baltasar Gracian
If you don’t ask, you don’t get. – Ghandi
Attempts
You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try. – Beverly Sills, 1929-
Attitude
Live out of your imagination, not your history. — Stephen Covey
Productivity is a function of attitude, and cost is a function of productivity. So it all comes down to attitude. — John Charvat, Zebco
Develop a healthy disrespect for the impossible. — Gene Hoffman, Super Valu
We’re lost, but we’re making good time! – Yogi Berra
Whoso would be a man must be a nonconformist. – Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1803-1882
He gives twice who give promptly. – Publilius Syrus, first century B.C.
It is the property of fools to be always judging. – Thomas Fuller, 1654-1734
I’d do it differently if I had another chance. I’d make a positive and sustained attempt to use judicious praise rather than find fault, to warmly accept rather than critique. Most of the people I know up close need a break. — Jim McGuiggan, Jesus, Hero of Thy Soul,
Authenticity
Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so you apologize for truth. –Benjamin Disraeli
One’s real life is often the life that one does not lead. – Ocsar Wilde, 1854-1900
Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation. – Oscar Wilde, 1854-1900
The closing years of life are like the end of a masquerade party, when the masks are dropped. – Arthur Schopenhauer, 1788-1860
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