The Power of Anointed Nudgery: Helping Others Come to Faith Step by Step

Evangelism is often seen as a dramatic, one-time event—but in reality, it’s more like a journey of small, Spirit-led steps. I call this process “Anointed nudgery” — a partnership between God’s presence and our gentle encouragement that helps people move to faith.

Here’s how we can understand and practice this doable approach:

1. Evangelism Is a Process More than a Single Moment

• The typical image of a sudden conversion doesn’t capture the reality for most people.
• Faith often grows gradually, moving from curiosity to conviction.
• Think of it more as a path than a leap—with many steps along the way.

2. Scripture Supports a Collaborative Approach

• Paul writes, “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth.” (1 Cor. 3:6)
• Evangelism is teamwork—some plant seeds, others water, and God takes control of the entire process. He causes the growth.
• Each role matters. Every act of kindness and every conversation can be part of someone’s faith journey.

3. “Anointed Nudgery” Is Our Calling

• This term captures the essence of evangelism: gentle, Spirit-led encouragement.
• We’re not called to force or rush someone into belief.
• Instead, we’re invited to partner with the Holy Spirit to move people forward one step at a time.

4. Move Beyond a Black-and-White View of Conversion to Faith

• Early on, I believed people were either in or out—saved or lost, darkness or light which meant that if only I was able to say convincing enough words to others then, BOOM! They’d respond like Paul on the Damascus Road.
• But reality is more complex. Most people inch toward Jesus through a series of moments. A radical knock-off-your-horse conversion like Paul is nearly historically rare.
• Recognizing the shades of progress allows us to celebrate small wins and stay faithful in the process.

5. Our Small Steps Have Eternal Impact

• A sincere smile, a kind word, a shared prayer —these may seem minor, but they can nudge someone forward.
• Don’t underestimate your role. What feels like a small step for you might be a giant leap for someone else.

Bottom Line:

We’re not called to make people believe—we’re called to walk with them, encourage them, and trust God to do what only He can — create spiritual hunger from the inside out.

Let’s embrace the power of anointed nudgery and play our part in the beautiful, step-by-step journey of faith.