The Power of Anointed Nudgery: Helping Others Come to Faith Step by Step

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Evangelism is often seen as a dramatic, one-time event—but in reality, it’s more like a journey of small, Spirit-led steps. I call this process “Anointed nudgery” — a partnership between God’s presence and our gentle encouragement that helps people move to faith.

Here’s how we can understand and practice this doable approach:

1. Evangelism Is a Process More than a Single Moment

  • The typical image of a sudden conversion doesn’t capture the reality for most people.
  • Faith often grows gradually, moving from curiosity to conviction.
  • Think of it more as a path than a leap—with many steps along the way.

2. Scripture Supports a Collaborative Approach

  • Paul writes, “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth.” (1 Cor. 3:6)
  • Evangelism is teamwork—some plant seeds, others water, and God takes control of the entire process. He causes the growth.
  • Each role matters. Every act of kindness and every conversation can be part of someone’s faith journey.

3. “Anointed Nudgery” Is Our Calling

  • This term captures the essence of evangelism: gentle, Spirit-led encouragement.
  • We’re not called to force or rush someone into belief.
  • Instead, we’re invited to partner with the Holy Spirit to move people forward one step at a time.

4. Move Beyond a Black-and-White View of Conversion to Faith

  • Early on, I believed people were either in or out—saved or lost, darkness or light which meant that if only I was able to say convincing enough words to others then, BOOM! They’d respond like Paul on the Damascus Road.
  • But reality is more complex. Most people inch toward Jesus through a series of moments. A radical knock-off-your-horse conversion like Paul is nearly historically rare.
  • Recognizing the shades of progress allows us to celebrate small wins and stay faithful in the process.

5. Our Small Steps Have Eternal Impact

  • A sincere smile, a kind word, a shared prayer —these may seem minor, but they can nudge someone forward.
  • Don’t underestimate your role. What feels like a small step for you might be a giant leap for someone else.

Bottom Line:

We’re not called to make people believe—we’re called to walk with them, encourage them, and trust God to do what only He can — create spiritual hunger from the inside out.

Let’s embrace the power of anointed nudgery and play our part in the beautiful, step-by-step journey of faith.

Steve has spoken, mentored and modeled to churches and leaders around the world with the simple message that anyone – regardless of their gifting or experience – can be involved in bringing God’s loving kindness to others. His first book, Conspiracy of Kindness has been translated into several languages with more in the works. His first book has sold over 300,000 copies. Altogether his books have sold over 500,000 copies.