My Favorite Mistakes of 2008 – Part 3

2008

continued from Part 2, which you can view here 4: Concerns about criticisms from the small-minded ensnared me. That is, in 2008 I got caught up the times in worrying about what other people thought about me. It’s not that all who are potentially critical of me are necessarily small-minded. It just so happens that…

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My Favorite Mistakes of 2008 – Part 2

2008

continued from Part 1, which you can view here 2: I concerned myself too much with where finances were headed. Sometimes it’s possible to not necessarily worry about something but to merely focus on it and to haphazardly become negatively ensnared. It’s possible to become preoccupied with a matter that may be neutral then you…

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My Favorite Mistakes of 2008 – Part 1

2008

At the end of each year, I spend time reflecting on my 11.5 months of making as many mistakes as possible. I look back upon the year that has passed and its miscalculations with a degree of glee. With a bit slight demented smile, I sit down, a pad of paper in hand, a good…

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How To NOT Be Chosen As A Contestant On A TV Game Show

Price is Right

Jeopardy. “Alex, I’ll take Norwegian fjords for $100 please.” You’ve seen it plenty of times. Answers are given in the form of questions. Each answer doesn’t necessarily add up to a lot of money but in the end, if you answer a lot right you can walk away with some decent change. My wife Janie…

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Goes Down, Around and Back

birthday cake

This has been a stellar week for me. My birthday was on Tuesday. I’m old but not that old. My son Jack thinks I’m old because I’m older than 21. I think I am younger than a lot of much younger people because I engage in playful activity a LOT. “When you stop playing you…

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Fatherless on Father’s Day

horse meadow

Loneliness is perhaps the most intense of human emotions. This single word might well explain much that is behind the challenges of cultures across the world today. overeating (compulsive eating cures most voids, right?) website popularity (the most visited websites have one thing in common – in the words of Grace Slick, ‘Don’t you need…

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Confessions of a Budding Realist…

stick and stones

Short People Got No… Need For Toilet Plungers … of strengths, limits, liabilities While in Denver recently doing some city-wide training with leaders, I stayed with some friends. They have renovated a house that is beautiful, ornate… and has old plumbing. This couple has children that are adults, are out of the house. Both of…

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We Get Honest – God Shows Up!

freakish

When We Fake It We Look Goofy – Even Freakish My grandma from Paris, Texas was full of colorful expressions.  She didn’t so much speak English – she communicated in one metaphor after another.  One of my favorites was: “He was a lot like a cat standing on its hind legs – not natural in…

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Valentines Lessons: Finally I’m Learning To Love People

Snoopy love

Valentine’s Day – the universal celebration of love. Anyone keen on walking in, learning about, and speaking the fluent language of love will be electrified this day.   Get excited – spread some around.   You aren’t the source of it so take a risk here and love like there’s no tomorrow!   (I can tell you from…

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More Ah-Hah’s About Connecting With Not-Yet Believers

Bueller?

It’s All Caught … Then Explained Some think it’s clever to parrot, “That’s one of those things that is more caught than taught.” No longer funny nor clever. Please explain what isn’t caught. One thing – please. Somebody. “Bueller, Bueller, has anyone seen Ferris Bueller?” When we serve others it is natural they ask, “So…

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